The Dress



I went shopping a few weeks ago for my dress, and I ended up finding one that is simply amazing. I immediately was able to envision every detail of the day, with my dress now being the centerpiece for my inspiration.

Here are a few tips for dress shopping:

Make appointments! Pretty much all bridal shops do not take walk-in's. And if do allow you to browse around, they may not give you as much attention as you deserve.

Don't bring more than 1 or 2 close friends or family members. The differences in opinion will drive you mad. Bring someone you trust, like your mom. OK, even if you don't trust your mom's opinion, she will love to be there.

Have a game plan, print out a few dresses that you like, and explain to your consultant what it is about each dress that you like. Never tell them you "love" something, because that will give your consultant a one-track mind. Rather mention that thing you "love" in moderation, she will get the hint.

On the day of shopping, wear a strapless bra and sensible undergarments, you will be in and out of gowns like commuters on the CTA.

Try on as many dresses as your consultant can carry into your dressing room. Even if you fall in love with the very fist dress, you will need to try on a variety to determine the one that is right for you.

Shop several bridal boutiques. Different selection and opinions from staff will help give you an honest perspective of what looks gorgeous on you.

Keep your day in mind. If it is a summer wedding, you may not want a 40 lb ball gown. If you are having a fall or winter wedding, try layering your dress with intricate lace. This can be done tastefully.

Be honest with yourself and your consultant. If the dress is not you, then don't settle.

Don't buy a veil just because your consultant popped it on your head. Make this another fun excursion so you can find exactly what you have in mind.

If you bring a camera, ask first if your party can take pictures. If you can, this is great, you can analyze the different dresses later and avoid making an on-the-spot decision. You can also browse the Bridesmaid section, taking photos of dresses you may want to consider.

Happy Shopping!

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